Nika answers a Racerchick's Question

Help Nika!!! My racing banquet is soon and I have no idea how to dress! Should I show up like usual, in a nice pair of pants and a nice top, or impress the guys and get into a dress or skirt? I need a racerchick's opinion!

Now here is a question I can answer!

First of all you must find out the dress code for the banquet. Is it business casual, black tie, white tie? Business Casual does not mean sweat pants but nice pants and blouse – nice suit – something you would feel comfortable in while working in your office. Professional is how I would describe it, as if you are going for a job interview.
Black tie can be tricky. Most people assume this is extremely formal but in fact it means both a gown and a cocktail dress is appropriate. Some pant suits can be worn if they are detailed with flair. I for one, have one with rhinestones as clasps on the sweater and at the cuff of the pant leg. With an evening purse and accessorized nicely you can be the belle of the ball. I do suggest a man should wear a tuxedo or a dark suit. Simple and classy, racerdudes, PLEASE. Colored bow ties are for weddings only.....and no Star Trek, Tweety Bird or Wrestling ties!

White tie, while rare, means formal – floor length gown and tuxedo. If that is what the invite states – respect it. Now many of us do not have the bank account to buy the latest Christian Dior gown so there are a few options. Some cities have stores that rent formal wear for women as well. Think of this – you in the Versace gown looking like a million without paying for it. Leave your prom dress and/or bridesmaid gown in the closet where it belongs!

Now as for your specific question – First of all wear what YOU feel comfortable in. You do not need to impress anyone but yourself. Being a racerchick means we are relaxed in Nomex and a dress (not at the same time) It all depends on the circumstance.

I don’t know your specifics so let me give you this piece of advice. Dress for your age, body type and personal style. It’s horrible to see a 16 years old trying to look 40 and a 40 year old trying to look 16. I’m not a young puppy anymore and spandex is not in my closet. Instead I have clothes that make me look and feel good. I am not a size 2 and would never consider trying to fit in a style made for that size. Dark colors without stripes work best for larger body types. I also am a fan of classic style. A Chanel style suit or the little black dress with some nice jewelry can work the best for me. See what works for you.

So my racerchick friend – grab some stuff out of your closet – try it on and whatever makes you feel the best, you wear. You do not need to break the bank for style. I’ve worn expensive pants with a bargain blouse – it’s all how your work the outfit. So go to your banquet and dazzle them with your personality and style – because we’re racerchicks and no matter what clothes we have on ...we rule!

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